I have been dealing with lawyers for 36 years.
I don't argue with lawyers, I JUST OUT PERFORM THEM!
Lawyers don't do the tedious, resourceful, challenging, menial tasks like discovery and verification. We "gofers" do the hard work, i.e. Legal Secretaries, Auditors, Document Control and Contract Management personnel. During the discover period, I ensure pertinent documentation is pursued to the nth degree.
Then I DOCUMENT the fact that I was (not them) the FONT OF THE DISCOVERY
EVIDENCE they require to support their deliberations.
I have little tolerance for "Credit Stealing " or "Blame Shifting" lawyers.
I don't tolerate condescension from "baby lawyers".
The sooner lawyers and I get to the meeting of the minds about those roles, the better.
Ill-mannered lawyers are their own worst enemies.
I always remind him or her that EVERY litigation has a winning and a losing lawyer.
They hate me... until I save their backsides. Then we are suddenly best friends...NOT.